Shit, I fucking love me. And if you don’t love me, well, then fuck you.
I identify as a gender-fluid super fucking human being. When I say gender fluid, I mean androgynous. I embody masculinity but still embody femininity. I’m a boy and a girl.
Gender is everything and nothing at the same time, like nothing is real, guys.
Music: “I kinda like you, I know you like me…”
“Alien Pus”: The song behind it was about turning out a straight girl. It’s about women being into women, and maybe that being foreign territory.
Music: “I just want to fuck. I just want to fuck. Work it. Work it.”
Sure, I’m queer. Sure, I’m gay. I’m a lesbian. I’m whatever the fuck you want to call me, keep on calling is all the fuck I care about.
Music: “When you call me a cunt, don’t forget to capitalize the C. ’Cuz that’s me.”
I try to make people uncomfortable with my music, but it’s also staying true to myself. I kind of like when people say, “Oh, excuse me, sir.” I get a thrill. I get a kick out of that.
You shouldn’t give a fuck. Let people just be people. We have way more shit to worry about than if I want to wear boxers or if I want to wear a bra.
Music: “No boastin’ / She’ll eat me till her knees need lotion. / I’ll bust it…”
I definitely always felt like I had to hide who I was even though it was blatant.
My parents are and were super religious, strict. Both my parents are pastors. I can’t completely have an open and honest relationship with my mom. I can’t bring my girlfriend home. I could never invite my mom to my wedding if I were to have one.
Music: “I’ve come too far to stop now (no one said it would be easy).”
We just have to be more vocal. We gotta be more vocal and change what people think. We’re out there, we just gotta find each other.
That’s what the hardest part is. When you’re a giraffe in a world full of hippos, just finding the other giraffes—when you see a giraffe, like, “Oh, shit! You’re like me.”
Getting all of the giraffes together and just not giving a fuck. That’s, that’s what it’s all about.
That’s what it’s about.
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